Restorative Listening: Conditions for Reciprocal Partnerships in the Context of Harm and Healing
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This study explores the experiences of 22 skilled professionals and community leaders across diverse fields, cultures and positionalities in Aotearoa New Zealand and their perspectives about what listening means and what it takes for listening to be possible in their efforts to engage individuals and communities. Establishing the connection between reciprocity and listening, and drawing from the field of restorative practice, this qualitative study introduces the concept of restorative listening to the community engagement field. It reveals that listening is fundamentally an interpersonal and relational act, but one that is contextualised by community and organisational climate and culture. Increasing attention to theories and methods of restorative practices and other forms of conflict transformation will support the field of community engagement to more fully and appropriately address harm that is experienced directly by partners in the context of their partnerships. Co- authored by a team consisting of American academics with an Indigenous Māori academic from Aotearoa New Zealand, we explored themes that arose from interviews conducted by the lead author whilst in the country, which were then collaboratively coded, analysed and written to present key insights. Importantly, this study highlights the profound influence of sociocultural context on listening and the importance of culturally respectful and inclusive approaches to exploring research findings. In this study, Māori perspectives had particular influence on how listening was conceptualised, with the Māori worldview emerging as a central framework for understanding deep, relational listening. Key themes are related to the development of relationships as a first and essential step for listening to be possible, as well as the importance of space and time for this work to occur and the challenges that organisational or societal pressure can create for such interpersonal and intergroup relationship building. This research positions listening as a deeply ethical and political practice and, extended to the community– university engagement field, suggests that achieving reciprocity – the ability to become collaborative thought partners in partnerships – may depend on the ability of individuals to proactively cultivate relationships at the interpersonal level, even as they are acting on behalf of groups, communities and organisations. We invite further exploration of the systems and structures in organisational settings that may be essential to fostering institutional culture and conditions for restorative listening.
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